Monday, 31 August 2015

Iwoye-Ketu: Town In Nigeria Where Umbrella is Forbidden

If you have to go out for an important appointment and it starts raining and you are not driving, what will you do? Use an umbrella to cover yourself right? It seems like the right thing to do though, however in Iwoye-Ketu, a border community in Ogun State the use of umbrella under any circumstance is a taboo. It is also a taboo for the residents and indigenes of this community to rear pigs. The sale of umbrellas is usually high during the rainy season which is ongoing but not in a community like Iwoye Ketu in Ogun state. For residents of this community, they would rather get soaked in the rains that make use of an umbrella because the use of umbrella is a big taboo in that community. Reports have it that this custom dates back to some hundreds of years estimated to be as far back as 1705 when its first set of settlers discovered the land and since then the custom has been passed down from generation to generation. Despite civilisation amongst the younger generation who feels the tradition has lost its essence, they dare not break the tradition till date. Split between Nigeria and Benin Republic, Iwoye- Ketu is about 98Km away from Abeokuta the Ogun state capital and it is bordered by Iwajowa Local Government area of Oyo state to the north and the francophone country to the west. The most accessible from of transportation there is the bumpy motorcycle ride which best navigates the dusty Imeko- Iwoye road and this takes about 30 minutes from there to get to Iwoye Ketu The community is estimated to have a population of between 50, 000 to 75,000 dwellers at present. How the taboo on use of umbrella started Legend has it that one of the first settlers of the community, Olumu, who was said to have been a powerful man from Ile-Ife in Osun State brought three items along with him to Iwoye-ketu: a crown; a staff called Opa Ogbo; and his deity called Orisa Oluwa. The shorter version of the legend is that it is Orisa Oluwa that forbids the use of umbrella in Iwoye-ketu and Wasinmi, a relatively smaller community under its control up till the present day. In addition, the deity is also said to forbid the rearing of pigs in the communities. Our correspondent did not sight a pig or anyone using an umbrella during his visit to the community. But interestingly, there are no known consequences for people who defy the custom. However, that has not affected the strong level of compliance with the rules by the residents. “It’s the Orisa that doesn’t want umbrella to be used here. It also detests pigs because they are dirty. We have abided by te rules because we (residents) know the custom. Children are told about the custom and when strangers come in, we also let them know they cannot use umbrella or rear pigs here,” said the Ooye of Iwoye-ketu (community’s king), Joel Aremu. He described the use of umbrella within the community as an affront to the deity as he told the story of how the community’s legendary early settler divided the Ogun River with his staff, similar to the Bible’s account of how Moses parted the Red Sea to rescue thousands of Jews from slavery and oppression in Egypt, famously known today as The Exodus. “Our residents can use umbrella outside the community; it’s in the community that it’s forbidden. We inherited the tradition from our forefathers and we have guided it since then because we respect our culture. Thankfully, no one defies the rule,” the Ooye of Iwoye-ketu said. “When strangers come into the community and use their umbrellas, we don’t harass them, we only tell them it’s against our tradition and they always abide by it. Nothing bad will happen if someone uses the umbrella but it’s our tradition and we want to keep it that way.” It was observed that many residents of the community, including Aremu, own umbrellas which they use outside the community. “I have an umbrella in my car and I use it outside the community,” Aremu confirmed to our correspondent. However, there is a longer version of the story as told by elders of the community. One of them, Mr. Jonathan Idowu, 75, said the story began with the earliest hunters of the community. Idowu’s late father was one of the community’s most celebrated hunters. He said, “In those days, our forefathers used to hunt elephants in the forests. Since elephants have big ears that are wide like an umbrella, they felt threatened by the sight of umbrellas anytime they saw hunters with them. “Most times, the elephants would chase after them. In spite of their size, elephants are fast animals. When an elephant is running, you will only see the dust rising after it because it’s so fast. “As a result, there were many vicious attacks by elephants on the hunters. And since it was the tradition of hunters to consult with Orisa Oluwa before setting out, later, the deity warned them against the use of umbrellas. “We (residents) obeyed whatever Orisa Oluwa told us to do. If it told the hunters not to go out and that they would be killed in the forest if they did, they would stay at home. Orisa Oluwa was also consulted in the wartime. So when it forbade the use of umbrellas, we obeyed and have obeyed since then.” Idowu also told of how attires like gowns worn by masquerades equally elicited violent reactions from elephants back in the day. “An elephant, with its size, appears like an object wearing a cloak so it could also be threatened by anyone who appeared like a masquerade,” he said. Meanwhile in the absence of umbrellas, residents are accustomed to the use of polythene, clothes, hoods, rain coats, boots and traditional woven hats (akete), depending on their suitability to the sun or rain. For instance, a 40-year-old trader in the community, Mrs. Modinat Adepoju, said she has grown to rely on other things in place of an umbrella. Adepoju, whose last child is still a toddler, said anytime it rained or the sun became too hot while she was out with her baby on her back, she would spread a piece of cloth or polythene over her as protection against the harsh weather element. “The taboo is not strange to us since we grew up with it. Sometimes I wear akete and give to my child that is older to wear too. And when I go outside the community, I use umbrella. I have one at home,” she told our correspondent. A community split between two countries Iwoye-ketu is a multi-cultural community with its over eight ethnic groups which include Yoruba, Hausa, Fulani, Igbo, Egun, Ohoi and Igede. A concrete pillar within the community separates the section under the Nigerian territory from the part that falls under Benin Republic, although residents see themselves as one since both fall under the authority of the same monarch- Ooye of Iwoye-ketu. It was also discovered that the boundary dividing the community along international lines had been demarcated since the colonial era but with little regard for its sanctity in the early post colonial period. Following the indiscriminate construction that sprang up all around the border line, a former Minister of Works and Housing, the late Gen. Abdulkareem Adisa (retd.) under the military regime of General Sani Abacha, redefined the border and demolished some illegal structures in the community. But at the Benin Republic end of the community, also called ‘French’ by residents, the taboo is also strongly respected. A gendarme at a police post belonging to Benin Republic, Tonasse Germain, who spoke to our correspondent through a translator, confirmed that the French speaking section of the community also complies with the age long tradition. He said residents have learnt to read weather signs and work with them. “We don’t have any problem with the tradition since Iwoye is one and we’re under one king. We watch the weather, when it looks like it would rain, I will stay indoors if I don’t want to get wet. And if it’s important, I can hold a polythene over my head. Some people wear raincoats and the like,” he said. How the tradition affects politics in Nigeria Incidentally, umbrella is the logo of the Peoples Democratic Party, the ruling party in Nigeria. And trust politicians from the opposition parties, they would not miss an opportunity to use the taboo to their benefit during political campaigns. Apart from the fact that PDP members cannot put up umbrellas during campaigns in the community, members of the other parties also make it a point of duty to remind residents that the deity of the land forbade the use of umbrellas. “We tell people not to accept the party with the umbrella logo because our deity forbids the use of umbrellas. Of course, they are political statements and some residents know that but we might be able to win a few sentimental people to our side through that,” the youth leader of the All Progressives Congress in Iwoye-Jabata ward, Mr. Idowu Odekunle, told our correspondent. Mr. Peter Bamgbowu, PDP Secretary, Iwoye-Jabata ward, who confirmed the situation said as a result, his party members sometimes have to explain to residents that his party was not after destroying the tradition of the community. “During campaigns, some people will say ‘go away, we don’t use umbrella here.’ We explain to them that it’s only a logo and that it doesn’t mean we want to use umbrellas in the community,” he said. Taboo on pig rearing Known as a nomadic tribe, a large Fulani population in Iwoye-ketu makes the community a destination for lovers of beef. Even though, pork is eaten by some of the residents of the community, it is a taboo to rear them. Legend has it that a bad omen awaits any pig that strays near Orisa Oluwa shrine. “Because Orisa Oluwa does not like pigs, any pig that goes too close to its shrine will die mysteriously. So it became a taboo for anyone to rear pigs in the community,” Idowu said. However, findings showed that some residents living on the outskirts of the community rear pigs.

Tuesday, 18 August 2015

FSJ: Deprived of good childhood, product of drug addict...

FSJ: Deprived of good childhood, product of drug addict...: A look into the streets and around the neighbourhoods, you’ll find children who ought to be in school, learning to become future leaders ...

Deprived of good childhood, product of drug addict parents

A look into the streets and around the neighbourhoods, you’ll find children who ought to be in school, learning to become future leaders wallowing away hawking or engaging in one crime or the other. When a child has an upbringing like that of Farid Galadinma, a who was born in a drug joint by drug addict parents, what kind of future could he possibly hold. FUNMI SALOME JOHNSON reports. Children’s day event is celebrated in many places around the world. It is a day set aside to celebrate childhood. On Children’s Day, tribute is paid to all children in the world. Children are loved by one and all. They win over our hearts with their angelic eyes and innocent smiles. It makes one realize that maybe that’s the way God wanted us to be. The holiday is meant to honour children and minors. Children’s day is not just a day for children to stay at home or visit exciting places. There is more to the day than what is being done. It is a day for sober reflection on what have we done with the gifts given to us by God Almighty? Every child is important, even those living on the streets. However, for handsome Farid Galadinma, his story is not the same as he is being deprived of a good childhood. Born to Shehu Galadinma and Iyabo Adekoya both drug addicts, Farid Galadinma started his journey into the world on a very rough note. Little wonder why the statistics show that about eight million children of school age are out of school in Nigeria. Sad you may wonder, while the right of the child is paramount in every society and looked up to as the future of every world, the case of many Nigerian children seems bleak with the nature of treatment they get both from their parents and the society at large. If the world would remain fruitful, then the lives of the children should be considered by every government and every individual. The kind of life the child lives today would determine the kind of youth and adult he or she would be tomorrow. What kind of life is ahead for little Farid Galadinma with such background? As early as 7 AM, Iyabo Adekoya, Farid’s mother would set out without a bath for the poor child and use the child as an instrument of getting alms to sustain her drug addiction. Amongst her numerous empathizers is Testimony Ahanon, a makeup artist who also designs nails around Ikeja area who normally give her(Iyabo) money for the sake of the child. “For long I have been wondering why this lady looking so unkempt would be taking the baby round places begging for alms. It took me quite some time before I understood the reason she was always looking unkempt and dirty” Testimony disclosed. With the heart to assist and see if the baby could be helped and given a more conducive environment to grow, Testimony became more interested in the child and for that sake, she continued to give alms to this woman who usually comes to her for alms claiming she wants to take the baby to the hospital. After becoming friendly and more familiar to the mother of the child and even the father, she had a shocking discovery. “Although I am still single but I love children to a fault and can’t afford to see a child suffer, I would want to do all in my power to ensure that the child is as comfortable as possible. That was what drove me into closely monitoring Iyabo, the child’s mother so that I could think of ways to assist the baby. After enquiring from people on what the parents of the child do for a living, I was told that they are both addicts and that they met each other in the smoking joint. I also learnt that the lady in question is a mother of four other children from various fathers and that each time she got pregnant; she goes to her family house somewhere in Surulere and on four different occasions, would sneak away from home leaving her child at the mercy of her parents and relatives to care for. It is for this reason she could not go back home to dumb young Farid” Testimony further disclosed that the father of Farid on the other hand is from a prestigious family in Sokoto, the Galadinma family but because of his lifestyle as an addict, he is ashamed to go back to his home town and because he has no relatives here in Lagos who could take care of the baby, he was forced to leave the child in the mother’s care even though he knows the child is not as safe with her” According to Testimony, she further stated that about a week ago, the father of the baby came to her shop and beckoned on her to be looking after the baby for them if she could, having noticed her special interest in the child. “About a week ago, the father of the child, approached me and asked if I could help with taking care of the baby for them. He said that the mother is not taking proper care of the child because of her state and that being a man and also in his present predicament; he may not be able to give the child the adequate care he needs. Initially, I wanted to say no because even if I have not had any particular encounter with such situations, I have heard all kinds of stories of how after taking care of the child, the addict would turn around and harass you with claims that you stole the baby from them so I said okay, I will but only on the condition that we will go to the police station to sign an undertaking that he, the father of the baby, gave the baby to me to look after and that I did not steal the baby and that he is doing that because he is not in a good mental and health state to take care of the child because of his addiction to drugs. He willingly agreed and we went to the police station at MAN centre in Ikeja where he and two of his relatives signed the undertaking” Testimony further remarked that her fond love for kids was what prompted her into making the decision to accept the child. “Besides you don’t know what the child may become tomorrow, he just might be the next president” she giggled. However, Shehu Galadinma, the father of Farid, also confirmed that he had to keep the baby with Testimony Ahanon to help him take care of the baby because he is not happy with the way Iyabo, the baby’s mother begs with the child to raise money for drugs. “I am not happy to have a child and not be able to take care of him. Farid is my first child and I love him so much and the way his mother is at the moment, she will not be able to care for him well. Many times she would abandon the child and leave the baby crying. She breastfeeds the baby and each time the baby is not sucking, he starts to feel withdrawal symptoms; that was why I felt I should look for someone more responsible who would help me care for the baby because I don’t want the baby to end up the way we are now. Again she uses the baby to beg for alms just to keep up with her addiction and I don’t want that anymore” lamented Galadinma. He says Testimony agreeing to help is a great relief on him because he knows that the baby will be safe with her. “When Testimony agreed to assist with the upkeep of the child, I was very happy and greatly relived because I know with her, the baby will be safe. I am from far away Sokoto and the shame of my present situation couldn’t allow me to go back to my home town and I have no female relatives here in Lagos, otherwise, I would have taken the child to them to help me take care.” On how well he knows Testimony whom he is entrusting his child to, Galadinma remarked that he had known the lady for quite some time and he knows her to be a good and God fearing person who has passion and rare love for children, although she did not know that I have been studying her for so long” Testimony who is equally happy to be able to impact positively in the life of an innocent child further said that although she knows it is not going to be an easy situation all through but she is happy doing what she is doing at the moment. “I am happy to be able to do this for this innocent boy. I took him to the hospital last week and the doctor had assured that the baby will be okay and that we should bring him regularly for checkups. He is such a sweet boy and I call him Emmanuel Galadinma, meaning God be with us” Indeed, Farid’s case is just one out of the many cases of abused children. This keeps one wondering on the kind of future this country holds. The question on the lips of many is that what exactly is being done by the government on this issue of child abuse that is becoming so prevalent? You may recall that In 2003, Nigeria adopted the Child Rights Law. It is to domesticate the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Although this law was passed at the federal level, it is only effective if the State Assembly enacts it. Till date, only 16 out of the country’s 36 States have passed the Act. Intense advocacy continues for the remaining states. This explains that the landmark in achievement of the legislative arm of government has not yet translated into improved legal protection throughout the federation. Children are abused physically, mentally, sexually, psychologically and morally on daily basis. Some who are of school age are on the streets hawking. Most of them live on the streets and become hoodlums. Others are sent out for prostitution, child labour even at an early age. Some of these children are even used for rituals. What does the future holds for these young minds? Any hope at all for them?

FSJ: Lurked in their silent world: the story of a deaf ...

FSJ: Lurked in their silent world: the story of a deaf ...: Indeed, love knows no bounds; it sees nothing else but that, which it wants to see and associate with. This aptly describes the union o...

Lurked in their silent world: the story of a deaf and dumb couple

Indeed, love knows no bounds; it sees nothing else but that, which it wants to see and associate with. This aptly describes the union of Bimbo and Abiodun Oluwa, a deaf and dumb couple who tied the knot some years ago. The life of this couple can only be compared to that of the mythical Romeo and Juliet who remained inseparable even in death; they have vowed to stick together come rain come shine regardless of the intense persecution from some of their family members who feel they are not ideal for each other. Like a wedlock solemnized by the gods, the union of Abiodun and Bimbo Oluwa can be described as very strange as coincidence of life is vitally playing on them. Their love found a formidable front in their disability as the lovebirds are both deaf and dumb. This love story makes true the axiom that love knows no bounds. As you watch them communicate through sign language, you cannot but feel a surge of emotions coursing through your veins. Another strange thing to their situation is the fact that they were both not born deaf and dumb and for both of them, they had accidents at the same age of 3years old that brought about their disabilities. For 38 year old Abiodun Oluwa, he fell from his mother and hit his head on something at the age of 3 and after then, he became deaf and dumb. All effort to resuscitate his sense of hearing and speech proved abortive. On the other hand, Bimbo who is now 35 years old had an accident at age 3 while playing with her peers outside the house. She was rushed to the hospital where she was given an injection. She remained unconscious for two weeks and after regaining consciousness, she could no longer talk, walk or hear. ‘We had to teach her how to walk again. That was how she became deaf and dumb’ recalled her father. Although, Abiodun was born into a polygamous and royal family from Olodi- Apapa here in Lagos but he was not opportuned to live with his father. “When I was born, I was taken to my grandmother in Akure Ondo state where I lived till I was about eleven years old. I come to see my father and mother only on holidays except when my mother visits me at Akure. I did not have the opportunity of staying with my father that much” recalled Abiodun. “Not too long thereafter” continued Abiodun, my father became terribly ill and was flown to London for treatment. He was away for over twenty one years, only for him to come back home and die. He died in 2004.” Perhaps if Abiodun’s father is alive, he may have been a better person than he is now. The union has so far been blessed with three lovely children but two surviving. Among them is a set of twins. One of the twins, however, passed on some years ago when he was about a month old. Their children Babalola now 8 years old and Taiwo Oluwa who is now for years old both attend Zion Star School in Oke- ira. The genesis of Bimbo and Abiodun’s story dates back to 2002 when they met and fell in love. Initially, there were no objections to the affair, and the duo soon became the envy of their peers and family members. However, he told our correspondent that their travails started as a result of Bimbo’s stubborn stance against an attempt to lure her into prostitution while in Finland by Lola, Abiodun’s elder sister. That, they claim, has further pitched them against some members of the Oluwa family. The deaf and dumb lovebirds that can hardly defend themselves against external aggressors went through so much threats and harassments from Abiodun’s siblings. Although the apartment in which they stay at Shogunro estate in Ogba area belongs to Abiodun’s late father now inherited by his mother but there had been serious threats in the past to eject them out of the place. However, a level of tranquility had since returned after several interventions by some people. Abiodun claimed his late father who was a retired major bought the flat about 30 years ago from the National Orthopedics Hospital Igbobi. He also claimed that his father owns many landed properties. But he says his mother and siblings are not giving him his share of the estate because of his condition. Although incapacitated in some ways, however, Abiodun and his wife preferred to learn vocations to help them earn a living like every normal person instead of capitalizing on their disabilities to beg for alms. “What I hate the most is to be begging for alms and that is why my wife and I learnt many vocations. My wife is a hairdresser while I have learnt how to repair generators, electrical repairs, fashion designing as well as shoe making” scribbled Abiodun Among the vocation he claimed to do well are generator and electrical repairs. In spite of all these vocations, Abiodun has not been able to secure a job in years and no assistance seems to be coming their way from any of his family members because of the severity of the relationship between his wife Bimbo and his family members. Recurring the major course of their travails, Abiodun said the only antidote to his family’s fury is for Bimbo to walk away from his- life forever. “But can the cord of love be easily broken,” asked Abiodun. They have been surviving majorly on whatever the wife brings home from her hair dressing business and whatever he gets from generator or electrical repairs which come in sparingly.

FSJ: FSJ: Agboyi Community: Within Town Yet Far From Mo...

FSJ: FSJ: Agboyi Community: Within Town Yet Far From Mo...: FSJ: Agboyi Community: Within Town Yet Far From Moderni... : The value of portable water and a link bridge are immeasurable for the resident...

My Family is called to serve the unsound

Dr. Daniel Obasan can be described as a rare man with an even rarer passion. He is the Chairman of Iseoluwa Hospital located at Oko Obada village along Abeokuta express way Ogun state. A psychiatrist by training with experience in the psychiatric department of the Psychiatric Hospital, Aro Abeokuta spanning over 37 years, he chose to take care of the unsound and the mentally ill. FUNMI SALOME JOHNSON was at the edifice to see what it takes to be caring for the mentally ill. ‘Although I had a career in the psychiatric field of which I was very passionate about but I never envisaged that I will have an edifice like this where I will be taking care of the mentally ill’ explained Dr Daniel Obasan who has been into the field for over thirty seven years. “I wanted to do something else, although not exactly different from taking care of people but I wanted to be a consultant; I was not thinking of a thing of this sort at all. I first got this call in 1995 to do this but I did not take it seriously. So after my 35 years in full time service, I was trying to secure a contract with the hospital where I served (Psychiatric Hospital, Aro Abeokuta) but somehow, God didn’t allow it work because he had his own plan for me” explained Obasan. According to Obasan, a lot of people out there have one mental problem or the other as a result of many factors of which drug abuse is major while some are genetic. The Yoruba born noted that at Iseoluwa hospital, they take care of every patient that comes in but their knack is in the care of the mentally ill and drug addicts who as a result of drug abuse is mentally affected. However, Obasan noted that what makes Iseoluwa different from the regular psychiatric hospital is the fact that they combine both the medical and the spiritual in their methods of healing. “You know that the spiritual controls the physical and as such, as much as we provide medical services, the spiritual side is equally very important to us because whatever is settled in the spirit is as well settled in the physical. If you look around you will find a church Praise Channel where we take care of the spiritual needs of our patients while this wing is for the medical services.” Obasan further disclosed that indeed God who assigned him to do the work has been in support all the way. As a matter a matter of fact that was what gave birth to the name Iseoluwa hospital. “This mission is actually from God and this is evidenced in the way he has been helping us to take care of the different patients that has been coming down here for treatment. If you take a look at this location, you will discover that it is not particularly an easy place to come because it is somehow remote but in spite of that, we get patients from different parts of the world bringing their patients here for treatments and God has been there enough to give divine healing to these numerous patients. We have Muslims, we have Christians, we have all sorts of people bringing people here for treatment” enthused Obasan. While some of the patients come from as far as United Kingdom and the USA for treatment, others come in from different parts of the country. One of such is Olatunde Adeogun (real name withheld) who disclosed that he was brought into the hospital on issue relating to drug abuse. ‘I was brought in here by my mother on the issue of drug abuse. I was introduced into the world of drugs by my friends in school. I was a university undergraduate in one of the prestigious northern universities and had to drop out of school in my third year when the school discovered I was hooked on drugs. For me that was a great loss because when I got admitted into the school, I had the mindset to study and achieve my goals in life, but this dream was truncated by my going into the abuse of drugs and this subsequently led to my expulsion’ lamented Adeogun. For him, if it were only possible for him to turn back the hands of time, he would never have touched drug again. Speaking on the possible reasons that could make one mentally ill, “Dr” Joseph Odeyemi who has been in the psychiatric department as a nurse for over forty eight years and presently at Iseoluwa hospital as a medical staff explained that a lot of the patients brought in here are in that state as a result of wrong use of hard drugs which in most cases affect their mental faculty. “It is very important for parents to pay very close attention to their children because most of these situations come up as a result of bad companies. There is no way a person will be using these dangerous drugs without it affecting their mental state. However, for some, the situation may be genetic but in many cases, it is a result of drug abuse which is mostly contacted through bad companies.” implored Odeyemi. Another victim is Adebiyi Shobowale, (real names with held)), a computer expert who was already in business before he had issues and became mentally ill also as a result of the abuse of drugs. According to Shobowale, he was working as a computer hardware person before he was brought to the hospital for rehabilitation over his mentally illness. Although, Shobowale did not state exactly what his problem was but Obasan explained that the mental illness was as a result of the abuse of drugs which in effect affect him mentally. Obasan further noted that although some of these patients may be violent before being brought in but to the glory of God, as soon as they get there, God is able to deliver them from the claws of their mental illness. When asked what trick he uses in caring for such ones, Obasan responded thus; “It is the power of God almighty that is actually at work. Some patients are brought in here with chains because of their level of violence; however, once they enter here, the power of God makes them calm. Even when they insist that they want to leave, we counsel them and give them drugs which we refer to here as food because drug is food and food is drug. That is our motto here. The drugs would give them the calm that they need and we also take care of the spiritual side by praying and interceding on their behalf” ‘Here, we don’t force them to stay and we do not let them leave without completing their treatment’ He said. When asked if any of his children are towing his line of profession, smilingly Obasan responded. ‘To the glory of God, I can say that almost every member of my family is into this area of career. My first daughter is the chief nurse at the Neuro- Psychiatric Hospital, Yaba, while I also have another girl who is the assistant Chief Nurse at the same hospital. My first son who is the medical director here is also doing his housemanship at the Psychiatric Hospital Aro, Abeokuta where I served for over thirty seven years. My wife is also nurse at the General hospital in Abeokuta. So most of my family members are into the medical field and I believe that it is just the will of God for us’ In all Obasan says he is grateful to God for the opportunity given to him by God to be able to serve humanity in this chosen area of life.